Summer is a season made for making memories. And what better way to enjoy the sunshine than by planning a getaway with the people who matter most? You’re not alone if you’re considering traveling with your aging parents this summer. More adult children are including their older loved ones in family vacations—whether it’s a weekend road trip, a beach rental, or a laid-back staycation at home.
While these trips can be meaningful and joyful, they come with unique challenges. From mobility considerations to medication schedules, a little planning can go a long way toward keeping everyone comfortable, safe, and stress-free. Whether your parent is independent or requires more daily support, here are some thoughtful tips to help your summer travel plans go smoothly.
Plan with their needs in mind
Before booking anything, talk with your parents about what they’re comfortable with. Do they feel confident walking long distances? Do they tire easily in the heat? How well do they handle new environments or changes in routine?
Make sure to account for:
- Medication schedules and storage
- Accessibility at hotels, restaurants, and attractions
- Regular opportunities to rest, hydrate, and eat
If your parent uses a walker, cane, or wheelchair, prioritize accommodations and destinations that are ADA-compliant. Many vacations for seniors with mobility issues work best when the travel itself is simple and the location is relatively flat and easy to navigate.
Choose the right kind of vacation
Not all vacations are created equal when it comes to older adults. While your parent might have once loved hiking national parks or taking guided bus tours through Europe, today’s needs may call for something slower-paced and closer to home.
Vacations that tend to work well:
- Beach towns with boardwalks and accessible rentals
- Cruises that offer mobility accommodations and medical staff
- Scenic train rides with relaxing views
- Rentals near lakes or nature preserves with drive-up access
- Spa or wellness resorts with easy walking paths
Vacations to reconsider:
- Destinations with extreme heat or humidity
- Trips involving significant air travel with multiple layovers
- Remote cabins or areas with limited access to healthcare
- High-altitude destinations if your parent has heart or respiratory issues
Ultimately, the best trips allow your parent to enjoy the experience without feeling like they’re holding anyone back.
Don’t overschedule the itinerary
When traveling with aging parents, less is often more. It’s tempting to fill every day with back-to-back activities, but your loved one may appreciate a slower pace. Build in plenty of downtime, especially in the afternoons, and prioritize one major activity per day.
Simple pleasures—like sitting on a porch with a cup of coffee, exploring a small town museum, or enjoying a local meal—can be just as memorable as big-ticket attractions.
Prep for the unexpected
Even with the best planning, things can change. Your parent may feel more fatigued than usual, need to visit a local pharmacy, or require more help than anticipated. Bring copies of important documents, including:
- Insurance cards
- A list of medications and dosages
- Contact info for their primary care physician
If you’re traveling out of state, find out where the nearest urgent care or hospital is located. Consider travel insurance that covers seniors, especially for longer trips or cruises.
Let them be part of the experience
Vacationing with your parents isn’t just about providing care—it’s about creating joy together. Invite your parents to help plan the trip by choosing restaurants, music for the drive, or places to stop along the way. Involving them can help them feel valued and excited rather than like an added responsibility.
If your parent is dealing with memory issues or mild cognitive decline, keeping familiar routines (like breakfast habits or evening quiet time) can help them feel more comfortable while traveling.
Staycation options for older loved ones
If a long-distance trip isn’t feasible due to health or mobility concerns, a staycation can still provide all the togetherness, without the travel stress.
Here are a few ideas:
- Rent a nearby Airbnb or lake house for the weekend
- Visit a local museum or botanical garden
- Host a themed dinner night or backyard picnic
- Take a scenic drive with your favorite music and roadside stops
- Check local community calendars for senior-friendly summer concerts or events
At The Arbors & The Ivy, we believe summer isn’t defined by where you go—it’s about the people you’re with. Whether you’re vacationing or staycationing, making space for older family members helps them feel connected and valued.
Connect with The Arbors & The Ivy if your parents need extra care
Traveling with aging parents offers a chance to slow down, reconnect, and make lasting memories. When you approach the experience with care, flexibility, and love, you’re not just giving your parents a vacation—you’re giving them your time.
If your parent needs extra support while you’re away—or if you’re considering a short break for yourself—respite care at The Arbors & The Ivy is a great option. Our welcoming communities offer short-term stays with round-the-clock care, engaging activities, and warm companionship.
Ready to plan a summer that includes everyone in your family—safely and joyfully? Contact us today at 860.698.8613 or online to learn more about respite stays, community life, and senior care options designed for every stage of life.