Top 3 Excuses from Siblings Who Don’t Help With Caregiving

Caregiving for an older parent can be a daunting task and a difficult one to do alone. Distributing the burden among siblings can make it easier so no single person becomes overwhelmed. However, gathering the cooperation of siblings presents its own challenges. Difficult logistics, complicated family dynamics, and grief-based disbelief can all be factors for why siblings sometimes choose to skip out on caregiving responsibilities. What is a caregiver to do?


By Sondra Jones - Regional Marketing and Sales Director | October 23, 2018
How to Talk with Family and Friends About Caregiving Challenges

It’s not easy to talk with family and friends about caregiving challenges. You and your loved one are in this together, but your experiences and roles are very different. For example, your aging loved one might be frustrated that they need help paying bills or managing medications, and you might feel stressed because you’ve had to cut back on personal spending to meet caregiving expenses or lonely because you’ve stopped nurturing your social life because you’ve become consumed with caregiving duties. You may also find it hard to speak with family and friends about what you need in the way of help, and/or how you’re feeling. You may not feel comfortable talking about your own needs when you’re not the one with dementia...


By Sondra Jones - Regional Marketing and Sales Director | October 22, 2018
How to Get More Caregiving Help from Your Siblings

A parent’s declining health can either draw a family together or break it apart. Siblings may fail to take equal responsibility for caregiving and financial needs, often falling into the roles they held as children.  Although Anne Ziff is an only child, she’s counseled countless siblings. Ziff is an assistant clinical professor of psychiatry at the Icahn School of Medicine at Mt. Sinai Medical Center in New York, a licensed marriage and family therapist, and the author of Your End of Life Matters: How to Talk with Family and Friends.  Ultimately, sibling tensions erupt as parents need care because, “everyone wants to be the favorite child, but most of them don’t want to spend a lot of time doing things outside of their normal life,” Ziff...


By Sondra Jones - Regional Marketing and Sales Director | October 22, 2018
Slideshow: 5 Most Unexpected Challenges of Caregiving

If you become a family caregiver, you probably have a good idea of some of the typical tasks that care recipients rely on: ordering and picking up medications at the drugstore, discussing the care plan and needs with the doctors and care managers, helping with activities of daily living such as dressing and bathing. But there are also some unexpected challenges that come with caring for a loved one.


By Sondra Jones - Regional Marketing and Sales Director | October 15, 2018
5 Hidden Costs of Family Caregiving

The decision to become a family caregiver is a highly personal one. Caregivers are motivated by a sense of loyalty, a desire for closeness, and a wish to pay back for past caregiving. What might not be considered, however, is the cost of caregiving. Most people know that caregiving will take time out of their day and require a measure of physical and emotional strength. But that only scratches the surface. In this article, we’ll examine five costs to caregiving that go beyond mere time and effort expended.


By Sondra Jones - Regional Marketing and Sales Director | October 15, 2018
Common Family Conflicts That Can Occur When Siblings Care for Parents

A parent’s declining health can either draw a family together or break it apart. Siblings may fail to take equal responsibility for caregiving and financial needs, often falling into the roles they held as children. Or it’s possible that your loved one might feel frightened and vulnerable, angry they need help, or guilty about the idea of becoming a burden to family and friends. Conflict and turmoil can be common when families need to work together to care for a loved one. Whether the disagreement stems from discussing who should manage a parent’s finances or deciding who and how care should be provided, one of the most common caregiving challenges stems from making decisions with and about aging parents. Here’s a look at...


By Sondra Jones - Regional Marketing and Sales Director | October 11, 2018
Where Do I Start? Dealing with Your Loved One’s Resistance to Care

Coming to the decision that it’s time for an elderly parent to go into an assisted living community is not an easy one. Not for the adult child, who has to admit that the person who symbolized strength for them since birth can no longer take care of himself or herself. Nor for the parent, whose lifetime of independence feels threatened. Managing that passage from “Everything is fine” to “I’m willing to accept help” can be difficult, and it’s no wonder that parents can sometimes get resistant and angry along the way. Understanding the source of their resistance and ways to overcome that can help adult children guide their parents toward accepting the help they need on their own terms.


By Sondra Jones - Regional Marketing and Sales Director | October 11, 2018
How Do I Deal with the Guilt of Moving My Parent to Assisted Living?

As your parents age, there are a lot of emotions you’ll probably experience. Maybe you feel resentment toward siblings who are not helping provide care. Perhaps you feel lonely because the longer you are a caregiver, the more isolated you become. One of the common emotions Carrie Wilson sees in her role as memory care director of Reflections at Ivy at Ellington is guilt. “For the majority of the population, most seniors would choose to remain in their home and be self-sufficient, and their family would choose to remain a loving family and make that happen for them,” Wilson says. “We see families in those stages of having their life change, and that brings on different emotions — guilt being one of them.”


By The Ivy Ellington | October 9, 2018
What Does It Mean to Be in the Sandwich Generation?

The “sandwich generation” isn’t like Generation X or the Pepsi generation. It isn’t about when you were born or what you consume. It describes your family responsibilities. People in the sandwich generation have at least one parent age 65 or older and are also either raising a minor child or supporting an adult child. Nearly half of adults in their 40s and 50s fit these criteria. They find themselves providing financial and emotional support to two generations while also meeting their own needs and saving for retirement. Fulfilling these responsibilities can be a physical, emotional, and financial burden.


By Sondra Jones - Regional Marketing and Sales Director | October 9, 2018


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Talking to your aging parent about moving to an assisted living community isn’t easy.

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Difficult behaviors in elderly adults are very common. They may be an expression of frustration your loved one feels or a symptom of early stages of dementia or Alzheimer’s.

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Becoming a family caregiver can be a rewarding experience. It also has its challenges.

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Has your aging parent recently lost interest in activities they used to enjoy? Have you noticed a change in their mood and behavior?

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Has your dad stopped getting together for lunches or outings with friends or visits with neighbors? Have you stopped enjoying time with your parents because you’re a caregiver?

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No one ever plans to be sick or disabled, and disasters, man-made or natural, can happen at any time, anywhere.

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Moving to assisted living is a life-changing event.

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Have you had to cut back your hours at work to care for your mom? Are you worried about administering medications or injections?

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Navigating adult sibling relationships can be a challenge, but coming together for the sake of your parent is important.

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Assisted living can be a touchy subject. No matter how you approach it, your parent is likely to have objections to something.

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If you’re unsure what Assisted Living looks like in real life, whether there is a difference with nursing homes or a desire to see how community life unfolds, then this guide is exactly what you need.

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Talking to your aging parent about moving to an assisted living community isn’t easy.

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Difficult behaviors in elderly adults are very common. They may be an expression of frustration your loved one feels or a symptom of early stages of dementia or Alzheimer’s.

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Has your dad stopped getting together for lunches or outings with friends or visits with neighbors? Have you stopped enjoying time with your parents because you’re a caregiver?

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No one ever plans to be sick or disabled, and disasters, man-made or natural, can happen at any time, anywhere.

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In this eBook, you’ll learn how to talk with family and friends about caregiving challenges, how to deal with a parent who is resistant to help, how to get more caregiving help from your siblings, and how to keep your job while caregiving.


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How Moving My Loved One to The Arbors Eliminated My Caregiving Challenges
Have you had to cut back your hours at work to care for your mom? Are you worried about administering medications or injections?

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In this guide, you’ll learn about the difference between Alzheimer’s and dementia, including the early symptoms of dementia; the seven stages of dementia and the symptoms that typically accompany each one; and the signs it’s time to start exploring your memory care options.


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Assisted living can be a touchy subject. No matter how you approach it, your parent is likely to have objections to something.

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A Guide to the Most Common Family Caregiver Challenges Associated with Caring for an Aging Parent.

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If you’re unsure what Assisted Living looks like in real life, whether there is a difference with nursing homes or a desire to see how community life unfolds, then this guide is exactly what you need.

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